Archive of Upcoming Events
2008 - September back through July

The sequence of events are listed from most recent to the oldest.  All hyperlinks have been left as they were on the original Upcoming Events page, but it is possible that they may have become obsolete after the event had been archived onto this page.



Sunday, September 28th from noontime 'til about 1:00 PM
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Pot Luck Dinner

It's Pot Luck Sunday!

After the lecture, please stay and join us for lunch.  First-time visitors are invited to attend and bring no food item for the table.  Others: bring a dish, any dish, from soup to salad to sandwich to entree to side dish to dessert.  Bring an item that doesn't require your attention from 11 to noon, since any sound in the kitchen is magnified into the room where our 11:00 a.m. program is in progress.  The oven is available to keep things warm, and a large 'fridge to keep things cool, and there are lots of outlets for crockpots, etc.; and the microwave is available right after the Lecture ends.  Even if you don't bring a dish or beverage, at least bring your appetite!  See you then!

The general public is invited.



Sunday, September 28th from 11:00 AM 'til Noon
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Sunday Lecture Series



" If Not Nuclear Power, What?"

This Sunday morning's speaker is Mark Haim, Director of Mid-Missouri Peaceworks, a Columbia, Missouri based, grassroots membership organization.

He has been involved in sustainability and peace education for more than 30 years.  He is a co-founder of Missourians for Safe Energy, and helped coordinate two statewide safe energy ballot issue campaigns in 1980 and 1984.  Mark is also co-founder of Peaceworks’ Center for Sustainable Living, the Peace Nook, and the Columbia Peace Coalition.  He helps coordinate the annual Columbia Earth Day Festival and Columbia’s annual Sustainable Living Fair.  He is also a talk show host on 89.5 KOPN, mid-Missouri's community radio station.

The general public is invited.
Questions?  Comments?  Contact Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Saturday, September 27th from 10 AM to 12 PM (Noon)
Non Profit Development Center
425 Spencer Rd
Saint Peters, MO 63376

Crucial Conversations Class
Week Three


"Master Crucial Conversations – Power for Good"

A multi-year research group analyzed what real people do in difficult situations to come out with more success and more wonderful relationships.  They discovered six skills, and they explain them to everyone in their book Crucial Conversations.  A "crucial conversation" can make or break a career, a relationship, or a life.

The general public is invited.
For more information, or to register, contact coordinator Bob Greenwell 636-284-0280.



Wednesday, September 24th from 7 PM to 9 PM
Hosts:  Jill & Bill

Living Ethics Discussion


the topic is:
    "The Bill of Rights and Amendments"

There are 27 amendments to the Constitution.  The first ten are known as the Bill of Rights.  We will start with number 1, read it aloud (it's short), then take comments and impressions from the group.

Before we begin, Bob will ask the group's choice as to how to proceed.  Do we want to get through all 27 amendments?  That would have the merit of bringing all the amendments to mind in one sitting, something that is rarely done.  Or do we want to take as much time discussing each amendment as is needed by the comments that come to mind? (We might only get through 3 or 4!)

If we choose the first option of getting through them all, we could do something like this:  Average 6 minutes for each of the first ten amendments (the early ones more than 6, the later ones less than 6.  That's 60 minutes.  Then 40 minutes on the remaining 17 amendments, with more time on the 3 or 4 of them that are more substantial.

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Sunday, September 21st from 12:15 PM to ??
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

ESMR Society Council

Please submit reports and
additions to the agenda well in advance.

Council Members, please notify if you will not be attending.

For members of the Society Council.
Other ESMR members may attend as observers.



Sunday, September 21st from 11:00 AM 'til Noon
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Sunday Lecture Series



"Living by the Constitution:
      The Bill of Rights"

Americans have agreed to live by the U.S. Constitution.  This lecture will focus on the Bill of Rights and other amendments.  What do they actually say?  What have we agreed to?  What are some of the major controversies that swirl around freedom of speech, freedom of religion, freedom of association, and other rights?

This overview is intended to give a sense of the whole package, not to settle specific points of interpretation.  Knowing one’s agreements is a basic part of living an ethical life.

The general public is invited.
Questions?  Comments?  Contact Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Sunday, September 21st from 10:00 AM 'til 10:30 AM
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Delicious Pancake & Sausage Breakfast

"A Fun-Raiser Extraordinaire"

This Sunday we will be having another yummy all-you-can-eat pancake & sausage breakfast.  Volunteers who are helping to cook need to be at the Brown Road building at 9:00.  We will serve at 10:00 and stop serving at 10:30 so we can get ready for the meeting at 11:00.

$5 for adults, $1 for kids under 12.

Thanks so much for supporting our last breakfast, and we look forward to seeing you at this one!

The general public is invited.



Saturday, September 20th starting at 4 PM
Convene at 260 Brown Road in Saint Peters for carpool at 4 PM,
arrive at Ronald McDonald House about 5 PM to begin cooking,
serve din-din at 6 PM, & depart at 7:30 PM
4381 West Pine Blvd, STL, MO, 63108

Ronald McDonald House



  "Nothin' Beats Home-Cookin'!"
      ...especially when family must be with hospitalized loved-ones.

Heads UP!!! One or two more volunteers are still needed!
Contact Kathy R. to volunteer and/or if you have questions.

Mark your calendar for these Saturdays:
Oct 18th, Nov 15th, & Dec 20th

For more information about the Ronald McDonald House Charity, click here.



Saturday, September 20th from 10 AM to 12 PM (Noon)
Non Profit Development Center
425 Spencer Rd
Saint Peters, MO 63376

Crucial Conversations Class


"Master Crucial Conversations – Power for Good"

A multi-year research group analyzed what real people do in difficult situations to come out with more success and more wonderful relationships.  They discovered six skills, and they explain them to everyone in their book Crucial Conversations.  A "crucial conversation" can make or break a career, a relationship, or a life.

A small group is forming to study this book and practice the skills.  The cost of the 6-week course is $20.  You can get the book at the library or at your favorite book store:

Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High (paperback)
by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, Al Switzler, and Stephen R. Covey
ISBN-10: 0071401946  and  ISBN-13: 978-0071401944

The general public is invited.
For more information, or to register, contact coordinator Bob Greenwell 636-284-0280.


Friday, September 19th from 7 PM to about 9 PM
St. Charles Justice Center
1781 Zumbehl (at intersection with Hawksnest & Graystone roads)

Friday Nite Free Film Series




  "Iron Jawed Angels"

Our film this month, Iron Jawed Angels, is a highly reviewed 2004 HBO film starring Hilary Swank.  The film runs 2 hrs and 5 minutes.

This was recommended to us by our monthly women's group The Hildegard Sisterhood.

It's about the dawn of equal rights for women in America, told with comedy and dramatic seriousness.  I (Bob Greenwell) have been doing a Sunday series on the U.S. Constitution, so this movie fits right in, being the story of how the country got up the nerve and gumption to write and pass the 19th Amendment.

Here's the first paragraph of the review from reel.com.  Some reviews gave more praise, but this first paragraph gives you a good idea. For brevity, I edited it down a bit:

"The extraordinary, galvanizing story of the American suffrage movement is the subject of the stirring HBO film Iron-Jawed Angels, now available on DVD.  Oscar winner Hilary Swank (Boys Don't Cry) heads an excellent cast as firebrand Alice Paul, whose single-minded dedication to the cause helped spur passage of the 19th Amendment.  Although it initially appears to be a sketchily developed historical pageant, the movie finds its dramatic footing in the second hour, when Paul and her supporters put everything on the line for the right to vote.  All the more harrowing for being true, the film... has an emotional gravity that makes it worth a look."

Invitation open to the general public.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.
There's no charge to attend.  Bring your own snacks.  Enjoy the big screen and the fairly comfortable seats of the Community Room at the St. Charles Justice Center, 1781 Zumbehl Rd (NW corner of Zumbehl and Hawksnest/Graystone), ZIP 63303.



Wednesday, September 17th from 7 PM to 9 PM
Hosts:  Jill & Bill

Last minute swap with Liz & Chris!

Living Ethics Discussion


the topic is:
    "The Bill of Rights"

Last week we went through the original Constitution.  It was a very satisfying experience.

This week, we enter the amendments to the Constitution, starting with the first 10, which are, of course, known as "The Bill of Rights".

If you thought last Wednesday was interesting, wait till you see tonight, when we get into the really juicy parts of the Constitution, our agreement about how we are to live.

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Tuesday, September 16th from 7 PM to about 9 PM
Non-Profit Development Center
Spencer Road at Boone Hills Drive
(building is adjacent to, and just East of, Spencer Road library)
Saint Peters

PFLAG



A support group for anyone who has a gay family member or friend
and would like to meet others in the same situation.

Please plan to attend!

Regularly meets the third Tuesday of every month.
The general public is invited
Phone (636) 928-5639 and/or email StCharlesPFLAG@aol.com



Sunday, September 14th from 12:15 PM to ??
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

ESMR Society Council

Cancelled due to high water from Tropical Depression Ike

Please submit reports and
additions to the agenda well in advance.

Council Members, please notify if you will not be attending.

For members of the Society Council.
Other ESMR members may attend as observers.



Sunday, September 14th from 11:00 AM 'til Noon
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Sunday Lecture Series

Cancelled due to high water from Tropical Depression Ike



"Taoism – Religion of Going with the Flow"

Taoism is a religion of great beauty and appeal.  It teaches "going with the flow" but not in a trivial sense or noncommittal sense.  It blends a kind of skeptical existentialism with a rapturous love of nature and beauty.  The classic text of Taoism is Lao Tzu’s Tao Te Ching, a bestseller in its English translations.  This lecture will explore Taoist teachings and practice.  Does it believe in God? Does it really work?

Other lectures to come in the series on world religions are Christianity, Judaism, and Islam, with a look at Ethics as a Religion.  Mr. Greenwell will draw upon scholarly resources and personal experience to present an appreciative overview.

The general public is invited.
Questions?  Comments?  Contact Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Sunday, September 14th from 10:00 AM 'til 10:30 AM
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Delicious Pancake & Sausage Breakfast

Cancelled due to high water from Tropical Depression Ike

"A Fun-Raiser Extraordinaire"

This Sunday we will be having another yummy all-you-can-eat pancake & sausage breakfast.  Volunteers who are helping to cook need to be at the Brown Road building at 9:00.  We will serve at 10:00 and stop serving at 10:30 so we can get ready for the meeting at 11:00.

$5 for adults, $1 for kids under 12.

Thanks so much for supporting our last breakfast, and we look forward to seeing you at this one!

The general public is invited.



Saturday, September 13th from 10 AM to 12 PM (Noon)
Non Profit Development Center
425 Spencer Rd
Saint Peters, MO 63376

Crucial Conversations Class


"Master Crucial Conversations – Power for Good"

A multi-year research group analyzed what real people do in difficult situations to come out with more success and more wonderful relationships.  They discovered six skills, and they explain them to everyone in their book Crucial Conversations.  A "crucial conversation" can make or break a career, a relationship, or a life.

A small group is forming to study this book and practice the skills.  The cost of the 6-week course is $20.  You can get the book at the library or at your favorite book store:

Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High (paperback)
by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, Al Switzler, and Stephen R. Covey
ISBN-10: 0071401946  and  ISBN-13: 978-0071401944

The general public is invited.
For more information, or to register, contact coordinator Bob Greenwell 636-284-0280.



Wednesday, September 10th from 7 PM to 9 PM
Host:  Craig

Living Ethics Discussion


the topic is:
    "The U. S. Constitution"

What do you know about the constitution?  What do you want to know about it?  What place does it have in an ethical life?

Bob Greenwell will bring a copy of the Constitution and maybe we'll read some parts aloud or refer to passages.

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Sunday, September 7th from 11:00 AM 'til Noon
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Sunday Lecture Series



"The U.S. Constitution"

Our Constitution gives us freedom by restricting our freedom.  That is, it restricts the freedom of any one to tyrannize over others.

Absolute freedom leads to absolute tyranny.  This is because there will always be some who want to lord over others, and if they are given room to do so (by an absence of enforced agreements), they will eventually do so by deceit and force.

On the other hand, agreements to cooperate, well-thought out and protected, create a cooperating community.

As an ethical act, Bob Greenwell will present our Constitution's structure, its tone, and its import in our history as a nation and in the quality of our lives.

The general public is invited.
Questions?  Comments?  Contact Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Wednesday, September 3rd from 7 PM to 8:45 PM
Hosts:  Beth & Roy

Living Ethics Discussion


the topic is:
    "When To Punish, When to Let It Go"

When do you punish your child?  When do you let something go?

When do you discipline employees?  When do you let them off with a cautionary private word?

In our discussion tonight, it's important to share stories of our personal experience, but we can also delve into national affairs.  When should a nation with a constitution and a peaceful transition to a new group of people in highest office take steps to punish crimes or near-crimes of the previous administration, and when should it move on to change?

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Sunday, August 31th at 3:00 PM
Craig Smith's EcoVilliage
Wentzville

Party & Barbeque Picnic

"We Are Sustainable"

We've achieved the primary goal!

After the Start-up fund comes to its fore-ordained end, we, Ethical Society - Mid Rivers, have determined that we will be financially sustainable!

We are celebrating this milestone with a party, picnic, BBQ, and games on Sunday, August 31st, from 3 pm to whenever, on the rolling acreage where Craig Smith is building his new home.

Chuck Fish is co-hosting, and if you RSVP to Chuck at theabacus@yahoo.com, he will bring enough chicken to barbecue for you, compliments of Chuck!  RSVP now, but at latest by August 28.

If you don't want BBQ chicken, bring your own main dish.  If you want to barbecue something yourself, Craig will be making available two grills.  Also, everyone bring a side dish, and we'll set up a potluck buffet.

Craig put it all very succinctly:
"Its really Chicken by Chuck, and bring a side, and if Chicken aint your thing, BYOThing."
Guests:  This invitation is going out to all members.  Members are welcome to invite guests.

The general public is invited.



Wednesday, August 27th from 7 PM to 9 PM
Hosts:  Maureen & Brian

Living Ethics Discussion


the topic is:
    "DNC Tonight"

There'll be watching of the Democratic National Convention rather than strict discussion of a particular topic.

Enjoy and learn from the judicious and exuberant commentary spontaneously expressed by all of you!

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Sunday, August 24th from noontime 'til about 1:00 PM
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Pot Luck Dinner

It's Pot Luck Sunday!

After the lecture, please stay and join us for lunch.  First-time visitors are invited to attend and bring no food item for the table.  Others: bring a dish, any dish, from soup to salad to sandwich to entree to side dish to dessert.  Bring an item that doesn't require your attention from 11 to noon, since any sound in the kitchen is magnified into the room where our 11:00 a.m. program is in progress.  The oven is available to keep things warm, and a large 'fridge to keep things cool, and there are lots of outlets for crockpots, etc.; and the microwave is available right after the Lecture ends.  Even if you don't bring a dish or beverage, at least bring your appetite!  See you then!

The general public is invited.



Sunday, August 24th from 11:00 AM 'til Noon
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Sunday Lecture Series



"Buddhism – Going for Enlightenment"

Buddhism was the first religion to be a reform movement against an earlier religion, Hinduism.  Yet of course its roots and attitude lie in Hinduism.

What is Buddhism, its teachings and practice?  Does Buddhism worship no God?  What creates the serenity and peacefulness that Buddhists seem to have?

This lecture is one in a series of lectures on "World Religions".  Others to come will be Christianity, Judaism, Islam, and Taoism, with a look at Ethics as a Religion.  Mr. Greenwell will draw upon scholarly resources as well as personal experience to present an appreciative overview.

The general public is invited.
Questions?  Comments?  Contact Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Wednesday, August 20th from 7 PM to 9 PM
Host:  Dee

Living Ethics Discussion


the topic is:
    "The Constitution--An Ideal in the Real World"

One theme from the talk Sunday was how the human animal struggled to find better ways to live together in groups.  For thousands of years, some people dreamed of an ideal that they called "democracy"or "liberty" or "representation" or "law".  Most people resigned themselves to the thought that such a thing could never actually exist... It wasn't realistic.  But the U.S. Constitution is real.  How far short of the ideal do you think it falls, or how much of the ideal do you think it captures?

Related Questions:
How idealistic are you?  How realistic (practical, pragmatic) are you?
Are you more idealistic than average?  More practical/realistic than average?
Were you more idealistic when you were younger?  More idealistic now?
What ideals do you hold that you believe have a chance of actually coming true in the future?

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Tuesday, August 19th from 7 PM to about 9 PM
Non-Profit Development Center
Spencer Road at Boone Hills Drive
(building is adjacent to, and just East of, Spencer Road library)
Saint Peters

PFLAG



A support group for anyone who has a gay family member or friend
and would like to meet others in the same situation.

Please plan to attend!

Regularly meets the third Tuesday of every month.
The general public is invited
Phone (636) 928-5639 and/or email StCharlesPFLAG@aol.com



Sunday, August 17th from 11:00 AM 'til Noon
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Sunday Lecture Series



"Living by Constitution – The Lead-Up Documents"

The U.S. Constitution is the overall framework of law by which Americans have all agreed to live.  Yet how many know what they’ve agreed to?  This lecture is the first of a series of three lectures on the Constitution.

It covers the preparatory documents that helped the Founders develop their thinking and gave them the experience to believe they could write their own national law.  These three documents were The Declaration of Independence, The Articles of Confederation, and The Annapolis Convention.  Lecture Two in the series is on the text of the Constitution itself, and will be given September 7.  Lecture Three, on the Bill of Rights and Other Amendments, will be given September 21.

The general public is invited.
Questions?  Comments?  Contact Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Saturday, August 16th starting at 4 PM
Convene at 260 Brown Road in Saint Peters for carpool at 4 PM,
arrive at Ronald McDonald House about 5 PM to begin cooking,
serve din-din at 6 PM, & depart at 7:30 PM
4381 West Pine Blvd, STL, MO, 63108

Ronald McDonald House



  "Nothin' Beats Home-Cookin'!"
      ...especially when family must be with hospitalized loved-ones.

Heads UP!!! One or two more volunteers are still needed!
Contact Kathy R. to volunteer and/or if you have questions.

Mark your calendar for these Saturdays:
Sep 20th & Oct 18th

For more information about the Ronald McDonald House Charity, click here.


Friday, August 15th from 7 PM to about 9 PM
St. Charles Justice Center
1781 Zumbehl (at intersection with Hawksnest & Graystone roads)

Friday Nite Free Film Series




  "Charlie Wilson's War"

Excerpted from a review at Rotten Tomatoes:

Charlie Wilson's War is the true story of how a playboy congressman, a renegade CIA agent and a beautiful Houston socialite joined forces to lead the largest and most successful covert operation in history.  Their efforts contributed to the fall of the Soviet Union and the end of the Cold War, with consequences that reverberate throughout the world today.

Oscar® winners Tom Hanks, Julia Roberts and Philip Seymour Hoffman team with Academy Award®-winning director Mike Nichols and screenwriter Aaron Sorkin to bring George Crile's best-selling book to the screen...

Charlie's partner in this uphill endeavor is CIA Agent Gust Avrakotos (Hoffman), a blue-collar operative in a company of Ivy League blue bloods. Together, the three of them--Charlie, Joanne and Gust--travel the world to form unlikely alliances among the Pakistanis, Israelis, Egyptians, arms dealers, law makers and a belly dancer.

Their success was remarkable.  Funding for covert operations against the Soviets went from $5 million to $1 billion annually.

Invitation open to the general public.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Wednesday, August 13th from 7 PM to 9 PM
Hosts:  Beth & Roy

Living Ethics Discussion


the topic is:
    " Nonviolence"

I (Bob Greenwell) spoke about Hinduism on Sunday.  Hindu ethics essentially centers around ahimsa or nonviolence.  Some say that this is central because there's a Hindu belief that all beings are really you, we are all the Self, and therefore whatever I do to anyone I actually do to myself.

Others say that this central doctrine simply echoes the fundamental belief in reciprocity.

Karma: what goes around comes around.

From ahimsa has developed the widespread acceptance of vegetarianism.  Gandhi developed ahimsa as a practice of political action and social action--nonviolence, as in nonviolent civil disobedience.

Shall we talk about this?  Not about Hinduism, but about nonviolence as a primary principle of ethics?  When is violence actually justified, if ever?  Even if violence is ethically okay sometimes, would nonviolence still be a preferable course?

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Sunday, August 10th from 12:15 PM to ??
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

          Society Council



Please submit reports and
additions to the agenda well in advance.

Council Members, please notify if you will not be attending.

For members of the Society Council.
Other ESMR members may attend as observers.



Sunday, August 10th from 11:00 AM 'til Noon
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Sunday Lecture Series



"Hinduism – Religion as Technology for Living"

Hinduism is the first religion to be focused on in the series of lectures on "World Religions" sponsored by the Ethical Society.  Others will be Christianity, Buddhism, Judaism, Islam, and Taoism, with a look at Indigeneous Religions as well as Ethics as a Religion.

Hinduism is the most internally diversified of all major religions.  But what holds it together?  What do all Hindus have in common?  Anything?

Mr. Greenwell, Leader of the Ethical Society, will draw upon scholarly resources as well as personal experience to present an appreciative overview.

The general public is invited.
Questions?  Comments?  Contact Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Sunday, August 10th from 10:00 AM 'til 10:30 AM
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Delicious Pancake & Sausage Breakfast

"A Fun-Raiser Extraordinaire"

This Sunday we will be having another yummy all-you-can-eat pancake & sausage breakfast.  Volunteers who are helping to cook need to be at the Brown Road building at 9:00.  We will serve at 10:00 and stop serving at 10:30 so we can get ready for the meeting at 11:00.

$5 for adults, $1 for kids under 12.

Thanks so much for supporting our last breakfast, and we look forward to seeing you at this one!

The general public is invited.



Friday, August 8th from 7 PM to ?? PM
Hosts:  Maureen & Brian

KnitWits



Par-Tay !!!

As always, lively conversation obliterates the sound of clicking knitting needles!

And nearby, there's a boisterous game or two, stimulating and challenging your brain-stuff.

Bring appetizer or snack or dessert, and something to drink, and maybe a game to play, and enjoy a warm & festive Summertime evening with Society friends.

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Wednesday, August 6th from 7 PM to 9 PM
Host:  Sean

Living Ethics Discussion


the topic is:
    "How do we know when to take care of self...
and when to attend to something else?"

In one sense, who else could my life be about?  If someone wrote my autobiography, wouldn't it be about me?  Yet I like the dizzy sensation I get when I entertain the thought that my life is all about Kathleen (my wife), and her life is all about me.  Perhaps my life is all about the others around me--other people, other things.

The something else might be a job, or it might be other people's needs.  Your job--how do you attend to with full attention and not simmer with resentment most of the time?  If you're a Mom, how do you put nearly all your attention on your children's needs?

Bring forward your own examples of tending to self and tending to others, and how to know when.  Ethics may depend on it.

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Tuesday, August 5th from 6 AM to 7 PM
Polling place should be indicated on your voter card

Primary Election

It is our civic duty.

As this all-important day approaches, frequently check for updates in the County websites linked below for registration information, absentee ballot information, and the actual ballots.



Sunday, August 3rd from 11:00 AM 'til Noon
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Sunday Lecture Series



"Eckhart Tolle and The Power of Now"

Eckhart Tolle’s visionary books have captured a large following.  First came The Power of Now, and currently on the bestseller lists is A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose.  His message is a kind of religion, a kind of psychology, and a kind of self-help set of meditative reflections.  How much wisdom is in it?

Bob Greenwell, student of philosophy, psychology, counseling, and religion, and Leader of the Ethical Society, will present his explanation of Tolle’s message and an analysis of where it fits into a common-sense and open-minded worldview.

The general public is invited.
Questions?  Comments?  Contact Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Wednesday, 30 July from 7 PM to 9 PM
Host:  Craig

Living Ethics Discussion


the topic is:
    "Politicking and Ethics"

Some people might suppose that to stay ethical a person needs to stay out of politics.  In politics you'll need to make deals with the devil.  How true is this?  Can we automatically distrust politicians?

As a case study, we'll watch a half-hour interview of the author of an article in the New Yorker that looked closely at the years in which Obama became political.  His name is Ryan Lizza.  His article, July 21, is titled "Making It: How Chicago Shaped Obama".  The interview was aired on Democracy Now on LinkTV today, July 28.

Come prepared to talk about your experiences, politicians who have inspired you, politicians who have disillusioned you, and overall your thoughts about ethics and politics.

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Sunday, 27 July from noontime 'til about 1:00 PM
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Pot Luck Dinner

It's Pot Luck Sunday!

After the lecture, please stay and join us for lunch.  First-time visitors are invited to attend and bring no food item for the table.  Others: bring a dish, any dish, from soup to salad to sandwich to entree to side dish to dessert.  Bring an item that doesn't require your attention from 11 to noon, since any sound in the kitchen is magnified into the room where our 11:00 a.m. program is in progress.  The oven is available to keep things warm, and a large 'fridge to keep things cool, and there are lots of outlets for crockpots, etc.; and the microwave is available right after the Lecture ends.  Even if you don't bring a dish or beverage, at least bring your appetite!  See you then!

The general public is invited.



Wednesday, 23 July from 7 PM to 9 PM
Host:  Mary

Living Ethics Discussion


the topic is:
    "Mindfullness"

Following up on Sunday's stimulating talk by Randal Blain, let's talk about mindfulness.  More than that, let's do the brief mindfulness exercise we did with him during the lecture, and then talk about our direct experience.

How relaxing is it?  How expanding?  How refreshing?  What would be the place of such a practice in an ethical life?  Do you have some kind of personal practice that relaxes you or re-balances you or elevates you?

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Saturday, 19 July starting at 4 PM
Convene at 260 Brown Road in Saint Peters for carpool at 4 PM,
arrive at Ronald McDonald House about 5 PM to begin cooking,
serve din-din at 6 PM, & depart at 7:30 PM
4381 West Pine Blvd, STL, MO, 63108

Ronald McDonald House



  "Nothin' Beats Home-Cookin'!"
      ...especially when family must be with hospitalized loved-ones.

Heads UP!!! One or two more volunteers are still needed!
Contact Kathy R. to volunteer and/or if you have questions.

Mark your calendar for these Saturdays:
19 Jul, 16 Aug, 20 Sep, & 18 Oct.

For more information about the Ronald McDonald House Charity, click here.



Wednesday, 16 July from 7 PM to 9 PM
Hosts:  Liz & Chris

Living Ethics Discussion


the topic is:
    "What Is A Hero? What Is a Heroic Act?"

Do we overemphasize/underemphasize heroism in our culture? 

Does heroism reveal virtuous character, or a set of circumstances, or both?

Can heroism be developed as a quality?  Should it be?

What would a person be like who was always trying to act like a hero? Fun to be around?  Annoying to be around?  Annoying to be around but good for us?

This topic was stimulated by an email received by Bill Aul from John McCain.  Our discussion tonight is not about McCain directly, but his example can serve as a good jumping-off point.

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Tuesday, 15 July from 7 PM to about 9 PM
Non-Profit Development Center
Spencer Road at Boone Hills Drive
(building is adjacent to, and just East of, Spencer Road library)
Saint Peters

PFLAG



A support group for anyone who has a gay family member or friend
and would like to meet others in the same situation.

Please plan to attend!

Regularly meets the third Tuesday of every month.
The general public is invited
Phone (636) 928-5639 and/or email StCharlesPFLAG@aol.com



Sunday, 13 July from 12:15 PM to ??
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

          Society Council



Please submit reports and
additions to the agenda well in advance.

Council Members, please notify if you will not be attending.

For members of the Society Council.
Other ESMR members may attend as observers.



Sunday, 13 July from 11:00 AM 'til Noon
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Sunday Lecture Series



"Peace Lessons from Disaster of Northern Ireland"

Terrorism, prisons, sabotage, spying, guerrilla warfare, religious hatreds—not in the Middle East but in northern Ireland.  It was a disaster.

Matt Morrison was in the thick of the action, on the side of the Irish Republicans versus the Irish Loyalists and the British.  Ten years ago, 1998, the "Belfast Agreement" aka "Good Friday Agreement" put an end to the overt conflict, yet the people of Northern Ireland now live in a no man’s land, under a government neither wholly their own nor wholly England’s, and there is still much to do to resolve the old enmities.

Now a St. Louis resident, Matt Morrison works for peace and unity.  He is the national Chair of the Political Action Committee of the Irish American Unity Conference.

The general public is invited.
Questions?  Comments?  Contact Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Sunday, 13 July from 10:00 AM 'til 10:30 AM
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Delicious Pancake & Sausage Breakfast

"A Fun-Raiser Extraordinaire"

This Sunday we will be having another yummy all-you-can-eat pancake & sausage breakfast.  Volunteers who are helping to cook need to be at the Brown Road building at 9:00.  We will serve at 10:00 and stop serving at 10:30 so we can get ready for the meeting at 11:00.

$5 for adults, $1 for kids under 12.

Thanks so much for supporting our last breakfast, and we look forward to seeing you at this one!

The general public is invited.



Friday, 11 July from 7 PM to ?? PM
Hosts:  Ginger, Kevin, & Lenora

KnitWits



Par-Tay !!!

As always, lively conversation obliterates the sound of clicking knitting needles!

And nearby, there's a boisterous game or two, stimulating and challenging your brain-stuff.

Bring appetizer or snack or dessert, and something to drink, and maybe a game to play, and enjoy a warm & festive Summertime evening with Society friends.

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Wednesday, 09 July from 7 PM to 9 PM
Hosts:  Jill & Bill

Living Ethics Discussion


the topic is:
    to be announced...

 

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Sunday, 06 July from 11:00 AM 'til Noon
University of Missouri Extension Center
260 Brown Road in Saint Peters.   (roadmap)

Sunday Lecture Series



"Celebration of Independence and Belonging"

No lecture(s) this holiday Sunday morning.  Instead we will celebrate with a variety of readings, poetry, and music to usher us into a deeper meaning of independence and patriotism.

Join us for an uplifting time with friends.

If other activities require your presence elsewhere (it's a holiday weekend afterall), may you be uplifted there as well!

The general public is invited.
Questions?  Comments?  Contact Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



Wednesday, 02 July from 7 PM to 9 PM
Host:  Hannah

Living Ethics Discussion


the topic is:
"Is the death penalty an ethical punishment for rape of a child?"

The Supreme Court decided death is unconstitutional as a punishment for the rape of a child, but the court was sharply divided.  Here's a link to the New York Times article:

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/26/washington/26scotuscnd.html

How do we even compare the evil of one crime to another?  Rape compared to murder, murder compared to torture, torture compared to genocide?  How do we choose on what basis to compare?  Is punishment a necessary thing in general?  Is it a good thing?  How do we find a punishment that is proportional to a crime?  Does it have to be as bad as the crime, or does it have to be as good as the crime is bad?

How big a part of morality is punishment?

Invitation open to members of the Society and their guests.
If you wish, you may RSVP Mr. Bob Greenwell by email.



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